On the cooking vein, I think about GaGa--dad's mom. She was a fabulous cook! We mostly partook of her cooking on the big holidays--before mom and dad separated--we would drive to Lockheart--about 45 miles--for the holiday meal. And it would be a feast. Funny that one of my favorite food memories is of her green beans! She cooked them down, and down, and down in ham juices! And they were great. Then I learned, as an adult, that you should not do that because you cooked all the healthy part away. Well, I don't know but they were really good! And she made pickled peaches that were wonderful. And lemon chess pie! Because GaGa (and Big Josh?) rejected mom and make her feel unwelcome we girls were never close to dad's family. Only as an adult have I developed a new respect for GaGa. She was incredibly talented. Beside being a great cook, she did beautiful embroidery, made quilts, painted china, tatted lace edging on her linens. She had a garden where she grew her vegetables, she had hens for eggs and meat, she had a glorious iris bed in front of the house with an incredible bed of mint! She was competent, productive and accomplished. She played the organ for church services, keep boarders in an upstairs apartment, was the high school principal and math teacher! On the other hand, she was not warm and loving toward us--nor with mom. So no bond was developed. Hummm, having problems between mother and daughter-in-law seems to be a recurring theme. Hopefully, that is over come in the current generation!
My memory of Big Josh is that he was a sweetie-pie.
I expect tht I have opened the door for serious disagreement! Welcome! Coming up next, memories from Jefferson!